Why do some people always think there is a particular way others feel about them?
Without them saying so, you already know what they feel and why they are acting the way they do. As divine as you are hmm!!
You get stuck and hurt yourself the more when you feel people do not like you. More reason some persons feel “rejection”.
It might not be the intention of the next person to ignore you but because you have been patterned in that manner, you feel anyone who doesn’t reply you on time, or ignores you, does not like you and so you feel “rejection”.
People do the best they can with what they know and with the resources at their disposal.
You first reject yourself by allowing the thought of not being accepted by people overwhelm you.
Some of you think you are “reserved”. Not because you are really “reserved” as it were, but because you are afraid of rejection, so you decide to stay in your lane and make yourself comfortable in that zone where you don’t get to mingle with folks.
One formula I still love is “If you love yourself that much, people will have no choice but love you.”
What then happens when you don’t even love yourself?
You admire the qualities you see in others more than those you see in yourself, and think if you had them, your life would have been better.
You spot the negative things in your life, magnify them while filtering out the positives.
Sweetheart, you have endearing qualities you are yet to tap and harness. Magnify the little you know first and more will come to your knowledge.
It’s in you.
Learn to accept yourself for who you are and by default people will learn to accept and love you.