This is a true story of my life. How I got pregnant at a Tender Age!

What the heck have I gotten myself into?

Who would I run to for help?

My parents were sure going to kill me, am their favourite baby and they try as much they could to hide and shield me from the world knowledge of sex and other things girls of my age know.

My getting pregnant was as a result of being in oblivion.

I couldn’t bring myself to telling anyone because I feared being judged.

I cried all my eyes out.

I was confused, I needed help, I wanted clarity.

And just then, my saviour came.

My saviour was Abortion and that was the best thing that has ever happened in my Life.

I was pregnant with low self-esteem.

It was stopping me from discovering my worth and discharging my gifts and purpose. I knew I had great potentials within but just couldn’t express it because I was suffering from a low self-esteem. I finally aborted the low self-esteem, knew my passion but didn’t know how to go about it.

I had the passion to inspire young ladies but always saw limitations each time I wanted to try.

Now so many of you ladies are suffering from this also. The truth is at some points in our lives,  we all suffer from a low self-esteem, emptiness etc and we tend to attribute the situations we go through in life to someone,  background,  even with God.

Its time to be free,  be responsible for your freedom, you should be the steering wheel of the bus of your life. Regardless of my situation, economy, background,  past mistakes, I decided to be great, I do not deny that these problems are there but I choose not stay there, I choose not live with it.

Choose to be present and not absent in your life, surprise the limitations that have held you bound, challenge your perceived limitation, oppose your realities.

You are not to blame for where you are but you are responsible.

Blame disempowers, responsibility empowers.

Choose to be responsible today.

I aborted the low self-esteem and that very one thing was my propeller.

What are you pregnant with?

Low self-esteem, pride, envy, pain from Abuse, rape? It’s time to get an Abortion.

Stop blaming people for How your life has to turn out bad and Take charge of your life.

People are doing the best they can with what they know and the resources they have at their disposal

The best way my parent knows how to bring me up was by keeping me from the world and it is not their fault.

It was the best the can with what they know.

No excuses for not living your best and be the Best.

P.s- you want to know how I got the Abortion done?

Then watch out on this space for the Part 2.


Precious Idahor is a certified Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistics Programming and Results Coach. She helps people to make their efforts be in congruence with their results. She is also the Executive Director of Women of Great Minds and Virtue(WGMV) and the convener of SHERO

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  2. Obi EMmanuella

    For a positive life changing experience, this is the platform to drive the experience

    1. Precious

      Thank you for the mention and your support.

  3. Elijah Otor

    Thanks for sharing such a life-transforming piece.

    1. Precious

      Thank you for getting value from the piece. It is our duty to give you life transforming content. Get inspired!!

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  6. Okogun Tracy

    Time to take charge!!
    Nice piece

    1. Precious

      O yes, it’s time to take charge. I’m glad you got value reading the piece.

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